Best way to deal with sadness.... HUMOR

  Think about it people, we ALL feel pain. We are human it's just how it is. Of course pain travels deeper then just our species. All intelligent life feels loss, knows scorn, and can express pain. PAIN is universal. What makes we humans truly unique are the ways we find to deal with this widespread emotions. As far as pain and sadness go my favorite cure all is most definitely HUMOR. Laughter can definitely heal the soul, the problem is the healing doesn't happen in the time we impatient creatures want. With a bit more patience and a lot more laughter most difficult spots in life could be a bit breezier for us all. Wise men once said LIFE'S A PIECE of SHIT when you look at it. Truer words have never been spoken. Life is shit; and shit OFTEN happens. Yes, that being said LIFE is happening all around us. Why focus on the bad, with so many opportunities to experience the world GOOD and BAD swirls around us at all time? So if you take every opportunity to laugh it seriously restricts the moments you have left to cry. You see the trick isn't to try and force sadness out of your life. Without PAIN you can never truly understand true joy. 

  Pain never equals love, no matter what the freaks may say. Pain is truly the absence of happiness or is Happiness the absence of pain? Well either way they go hand in hand and LOVE is nowhere to be found in there not even the middle. Of course I've lost all sense of where I was going with this....LIKE ALWAYS but the gist of the story is.... SMILE through the pain. Sorrow is temporary, Laughter helps, humor heals, and friends are a guiding light through the sorrowful fog. So when feeling down and truely low do your best to find a laugh in the misery. So your woman left you and took the dog, well that's ok fucking thing only had a month to live anyway. You can't get a date with the guy you've always wanted?  Fuck it you hear he has a little dick anyway. Car won't start and you are on your last legs with you job? No biggie, you hate everyone there anyway; and besides you are tired of pissing in the boss' coffee cup anyway. 

The nomad lives on

So I have now added the 562 to my list of lived area codes. this list seems to forever be expanding. Every few years I seem to find a new place to call home. I dream of settling, but a place to truly settle never comes. Why is that? Is it me or is it my locations? Am I just never satisfied in one place or do these places simply grow tired of me? I can never truly know. The people I encounter insure me I have made a difference in their lives. Frankly that is the ultimate goal of life, in my opinion, to reach out and positively affect as many lives possible. What better way to measure a life then in smiles and love? So though I'm forever passing through while I'm in that space it's best to be the best me I can be. So with that idea the best me I can be should breed nothing more then positivity correct?
- a look inside the mind of D -

Still going strong

20+ years and still going strong.


Been watching weekly, reading behind the scenes stories and each day is as strong as the last. It has been a lifelong passion a love for sports entertainment, and I refuse to be ashamed. Ok maybe a little, but hey what can I say, I just love the product. I remember the golden era of WWF wrestling. I remember being a little Hulk-a-maniac then a little warrior and finally a follower of King Macho Man. I remember the day I learned it was fake (went to a live show at the Oakland coliseum and saw Ravishing Rick Rude succumb to the punches of Jake the Snake though I could clearly see none had ever landed). I remember the days when the story lines where thought out, the company took time to establish stars and nothing was to big to attempt to pull off. Now the eighties product was corny, but the Nineties was the Golden Era and it simply broke down to one fact, Competition breeds excellence.
That being said the deaths of ECW and WCW, hell even the sorry product that was JCW, have in turned paved the way to the demise of the WWE. Right now the only hope for pro wrestlings future falls to the final two factions, the WWE and TNA, to right their ships and bring a better product to American television then they have thus far. Same stars across two different companies doing the same story lines has lost the interest of the average fan. Frankly I'm not an average fan so I shall endure, but it's sad to see so many of my comrades falling off. However sad it seems watching the fan base diminish I can honestly say I am not the least surprised.


Long gone are the glory days for the WWE, but there are gins that maybe just maybe a change is going to come. A new storyline involving new people in charge and new changes necessary changes are being alluded to. The return of the tag team, a hopeful reemergence of skilled Female wrestlers, and the opportunity for the old school to finally give way to the next generation wrestlers. Maybe just Maybe Cena will stop being the all or nothing superstar for the company. Maybe just maybe the people running the show can and will recognize there is some serious underused talents cluttering the locker room just dying to put on a great show. Love it or hate it that's what it's all about, all the blood sweat and tears just to put on the best damn show possible. All the haters who care about the fact it's scripted can just drop it, a show is a show is a show and that's all there is to it.
- a look inside the mind of D -

Faith

The preacher steps up clears his throat and begins...
You're all going to HELL!
And with that I was done. The problem is what do you do? You are uncomfortable sitting there while this leader of the flock spews his venom upon the crowd. You want to walk out, but fear attempting to leave mid sermon. All that venom and hate in the name of the almighty would be squarely turned onto you, and that my friends is the last thing you'd want to have happen. A gaggle of gossiping judging faking believers equating you to the devil in and out of church. Is this the lessons that were left for the true believers? What happened to the golden rule and how about the little saying judge lest ye be judged? (that's King James speak for leave the judging to the big man above.)


What if Jesus has come back and walks among us now? Maybe he simply decided not to reveal because the world simply isn't ready for the eternal light. Maybe there is too much technology to much reality television too much classless behavior and far too much ignorance for the awesome glory that is THE ONE to be revealed. Of course that's all just a matter of opinion....

There are plenty of others who aren't waiting for the end or the big arrival of some mega spiritual something or other to rescue us from ourselves. Things are the way they are and possibly always will be, but where's the fun in that really? Who wants the only big brother watching over us to be the hateful and hurtful secret government? Give me an all powerful compassionate yet vengeful dirty any day. Though confusing and hard to believe at times it gives the world hope faith and a subtle shape to the everyday madness. So God bless us everyone open up your Christmas presents and dye your Easter eggs for the lord art with you. Praise be the meek the weak the strong in faith and the mighty in devotion. Church goer or not you all are blessed saved praised and able to pass go if you are down with all our almighty bro! (hey he is the son of god, but we are ALL God's children therefore Jesus is your Bro!)


Look to the heavens and pray for rain. Drizzle of blessings downpour of praise the sun maybe shining but with the proper faith it may be raining for days.
Hallelujah Amen
Or as the blasphemous humorist of this generation would say
Praise Him HalleyLouYur muthafuckin take it to the chuch y'all!

- a look inside the mind of D -

Blessed be

Ever have a day which does nothing but bring you down? Ever wonder why me, how did my life become what it has become?


During those time always remember things will soon look up. There are blessings to be had and in time they shall all find their way to you. Positive attitude and a positive outlook leads to positivity all around you. Meaning be good and good things will happen. Stop being punks and bitches and wondering why nothing ever goes the way you want. No worries life will always return to you what you give to it. Karma is no joke, whether you believe or not it's all about the GOLDEN RULE: do unto others as you would have them do unto you.


When all else fails never forget the time tested mantra "calm blue ocean". These three words have done wonders for so many. That being said I, in order to be a more positive person, have fully dedicated myself to the idea of relocated to the southern California coastline. Be it OC living, Long Beach, Venice Beach, hell even sticking out like a sore thumb in Malibu; I will indeed move closer to said calm blue ocean.
- a look inside the mind of D -

Make things happen bro

Time has come and refocusing is happening. New spirit, hope renewed. Grabbing life by the horns is the best way to avoid all the bull.



So much work ahead of me, because frankly better work requires greater work ahead. So many plans to start this new year. Come this summer I plan on being away from here and onto a new future. I know it will be harder then the last four years, but as the history makers of today will soon learn absolute freedom comes at high prices. Life is full of give and take, well I'm cashing in my years of give for some big quality takes. There is no more convincing change is necessary, simply put changes shall be made. Done waiting for a new tomorrow instead I simply will forge my tomorrow today. Happy to say my determination is strong and my will shall be done. As they said way back in the day

"So it is written so shall it be done"

- a look inside the mind of D -

Almost Here

Final hours til I forge on into my 30s, and as the time comes closer I'm starting to feel the twinge of age creeping upon me. I've seen plenty of people panic about leaving their twenties over the years and I always vowed I'd never do the same. Now the time is here and though I feel I'm heading into the transition smoothly I do feel the time closing in on me like a vise. Now 30 is far from old, but I'll be damned if anyone implies it is young. Too early for a midlife crisis but to late for the drunken debauchery of the 20s. All I know is the 20 something days are closing....


Bring on the big THREE ZERO!


- a look inside the mind of D -

Do unto others ¤or¤ Do for others

Of course some of us don't mind abuse so I think those are the bastards to avoid. They don't mind taking crap so it gives them every right to dish it out. Watch yourselves people, life is full  of bitches who happily dive bomb your life in attempt to end your good times. Never let anyone take your power to enjoy your life.  Life is meant  to be enjoyed not just tolerated. To be exhilarating not stagnant. Go forth & live for all those who never truly lived before you. Lead your own life, but live enough for three others!

a look inside the mind of D